Positive reinforcement goes a long way in parenting a child with autism, so go out of your way to “catch” them engaged appropriately and reward that! Use loving praise when they exhibit a behavior that promotes learning or relaxation.
Create Safe Spaces for Your Child
Create a private, safe space in your home where your child can decompress, destimulate, relax, feel secure, and be safe. This may involve setting boundaries for when this space can be accessible so that it remains exceptional and only available some of the time. For some families, it will be necessary to safety-proof your entire...
Provide Sensory Support
Many autistic children are hypersensitive to sound, touch, light, taste, and even smell. Contrastingly other children with autism are under-sensitive to stimuli like temperature and pain. Understanding and accommodating sensory issues can help with discomfort and improve your autistic child’s ability to learn, interact, and communicate. Accommodation may mean changing the environment, using tools and strategies, or...
Make Having Fun a Priority
A child with autism is still a child. There needs to be more to their lives than just therapy and drills for both parents and children. Try to schedule playtime when your child is most awake, alert, and feeling positive. Find ways to have fun together by considering what makes them smile, laugh, or feel...
Try to Determine the Function of Your Autistic Child’s Behavior
It is natural to feel upset when you don’t get what you want, but often tantrums can be the result when autistic children don’t feel heard or understood. Remember, a tantrum is a form of communication and a way of getting your attention. Try to understand the reason for a tantrum or other behavior without...